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Love
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To live and work for the right reasons ...
Love God and Neighbor

Notice in the following verses why this woman loved Christ.

Luke 7:37  "And, behold, a woman in the city, which was a sinner, when she knew that Jesus sat at meat in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster box of ointment,"

Luke 7:38  "And stood at his feet behind him weeping, and began to wash his feet with tears, and did wipe them with the hairs of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment."

Luke 7:39  "Now when the Pharisee which had bidden him saw it, he spake within himself, saying, This man, if he were a prophet, would have known who and what manner of woman this is that toucheth him: for she is a sinner."

Luke 7:40  "And Jesus answering said unto him, Simon, I have somewhat to say unto thee. And he saith, Master, say on."

Luke 7:41  "There was a certain creditor which had two debtors: the one owed five hundred pence, and the other fifty."

Luke 7:42  "And when they had nothing to pay, he frankly forgave them both. Tell me therefore, which of them will love him most?"

Luke 7:43  "Simon answered and said, I suppose that he, to whom he forgave most. And he said unto him, Thou hast rightly judged."

Luke 7:44  "And he turned to the woman, and said unto Simon, Seest thou this woman? I entered into thine house, thou gavest me no water for my feet: but she hath washed my feet with tears, and wiped them with the hairs of her head."

Luke 7:45  "Thou gavest me no kiss: but this woman since the time I came in hath not ceased to kiss my feet."

Luke 7:46  "My head with oil thou didst not anoint: but this woman hath anointed my feet with ointment."

Luke 7:47  "Wherefore I say unto thee, Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little."

She loved Christ, because Christ loved her first in forgiving her sins.

1 John 4:19  "We love him, because he first loved us."

Those that realize their sinfulness will love Christ more because they realize how much there was to be forgiven. 
The more forgiveness we perceive, the more we end up loving Jesus.  Do we not love those the most who understand and still forgive us.

Commitment is the prime mover. 
Once that we get committed to the Lord (put Him first) we will want to please Him, then we will begin to search out sin and stay away from it.

Commitment to God will develop a love for God. 
This is how it works:
 1. When we put the Lord first in our lives we show a commitment to Him.
 2. When we repeatedly commit to Him we end up loving Him.
 3. Real love comes by commitment, which is putting the loved person first, before self.

Commitment is a decision to act, a decision to love, not a helpless reaction (Hollywood's idea of love .)
Christian Commitment is a decision to act righteously.  When we become committed to something or somebody, we begin to love it or them.

Luke 12:34  "For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also."

The person or thing to whom we commit:
* is what we love
* is what we treasure

Teaching  Love
Commitment and resultant love from that commitment must be taught. 

The committed person must have decided to be committed, and will love the thing or person committed to.

The young must be taught to love.
* It is not fallen into.
* It does not come naturally.

Titus 2:1  "But speak thou the things which become sound doctrine:"

Titus 2:2  "That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience."

Titus 2:3  "The aged women likewise (like the men), that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;"

Titus 2:4  "That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,"

How to love your spouse and children.
Wives and husbands must either be taught or teach themselves to be committed to their family in order for love to arrive.  Anything else is merely flesh.  If you are committed (putting them first): you will be honest about your dealings with them; they will forgive you in their dealings with you.

Personal Commitment
Be sure to realize, their commitment has nothing to do with your commitment, otherwise your commitment is only as strong as theirs.

Love is unconditional
We love others because we decide to commit to them, not because they decide to be nice to us, or commit to us.

This works the same with love for:
* Family
* Church
* Christians in other congregations or countries
* Even enemies

Mat 5:44  "But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;"

Commit to your enemies
Commit to love those that hate you.  How else could we ever love our enemies.  We must decide to love others, good or bad.  To decide is to allow ourselves to be taught  to commit to others.

Deciding to Love

Col 3:2  "Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth."

To "set" is to decide, then place.
Clearly we are to determine or decide where our affection is to be placed.  Not merely "fall into love" (Hollywood misnomer.)  The above verse clearly shows that affection is placeable, decideable.  It comes through commitment, so we must be determined to decide where we will place our affections.

Do not confuse Love and Like
Liking others is when they do something that we appreciate.

This completely hinges on their good conduct.
* Some will say,
I just love my wife.  She is the best cook in town.  That is not love.  That is like.  The proof is when she no longer cooks to suit him.

* Some will say
I love my husband.  He is a good father and provider for our family. 
That is not love.  That is like.  The proof is when he is no longer able to provide in the manner the wife loves.

Loving others is when we determine to commit to them whether they do good or not.  This is how the Lord can easily command us to love our enemies.  Love for them is not dependent upon their conduct, but ours.

We can't help it, if we do not like someone.  Liking them is dependent upon their doing right. 

We are in control of whether we love them or not because love is not dependent upon them, but us.
* We decide.
* We commit .
* We place.
“And Love will come.”

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