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Don't Tell Converts
They Are Saved

Up-Dated - Friday, April 04, 2014

Table of Contents
* Do not tell Converts they are Saved
* A good Method
* Be Careful - You Cannot Identify Insincerity
* Bible Help - Proof of Sincerity
* God-Given Change
* When Dealing with several prospects ...
* Don't tell them they are saved

Do not tell Converts they are Saved
When Soul Winning some tell us, "I don't want to tell someone they are saved, if I don't know for sure that they are".
Right! You do not know who is saved and who is not. Only God knows. Sometimes we can suspect that a person is saved or not saved by the fruit of their lives or lack there of, but only God knows for sure.

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A Good Method
Pray with anyone who wants to get saved, then after the prayer, give them this warning:
"If you meant what you just prayed, according to the Bible, you are saved, born again. If you did not mean your prayer or did not understand, you do not have eternal life, but you are still going to eternal punishment, just like you were before we talked."

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Be Careful - You Cannot Identify the Insincere
Some soul-winners think they can identify prospects who are genuinely listening and those who are not. This may be precarious ground.

We prefer to pray with all who say they want to be saved, then after the prayer let them know they are saved if they receive the God-given change.
* Allow them to decide if they want to pray.
* Allow them to see if they got the Heart Change, proof of the New Birth.
Leave the burden on their shoulders, where it should be.  My father used to say, "Every tub sits on its own bottom."  How true!  Each is responsible for their own actions.  Do not tell someone they are saved, how be it to encourage them, but leave the burden of proof with them.  Of course we should also let them know how to observe, obtain and experience that proof.

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Bible Help - Proof of Sincerity
We like to ask, "Would you like to see from the Bible how you can know for sure if you meant your prayer or not?" I have never had anyone tell me, "No!"

"Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new." 2 Corinthians 5:17

Point out to them that all who are "in Christ" (saved or born-again or eternal life) are new creatures, new creations or new persons.
Tell them, "You will still look the same, but will have a
* new heart
* changed heart
* re-born heart

God-Given Change
This changed heart is not a change the prospect effects (although they should make some changes in their life), but is a God-given change. A change only He can make. When they see this God-made change come about, they can tell themselves, "I must have meant my prayer". When there is no God-given change in their life, they can tell themselves, "I must not have meant my prayer, I better seek out some help."
One of the changes God makes in everyone's life is a new desire of the heart:
* to do right
* to not do wrong
* to seek out a church
* to know more from the Bible
* to tell others what happened
* and so on
Loss of these desires is not a sign of losing salvation, but indicates a backsliden condition.

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When Dealing with several prospects ...
Tell the first person, "If you meant your prayer just now, your friend seated next to will know it next week, they will see a change in your life."
Tell the second person, "If you did not mean your prayer just now, your friend seated next to you will know it next week. They will not see a change in your life."
This method does not allow these friends to walk away from the booth and never discuss or think about what has happened. Each is apt to watch and look for a God-given change in themselves and the other.

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Don't tell them they are saved
Tell them to look for the change that is indicative of salvation.  Not a feeling, but a God given change.

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G. Steven Andres
Psalms 45:17
Missionary Evangelist
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